Tiffany Gardner, an adult DCP

You can’t be a sperm donor without also being a biological father. We Are Donor Conceived via Instagram My first father died when I was four. I barely knew him. But would anyone have told me never to wonder about him? That I shouldn’t care to know more? That he was not my father because

A “donor” who gets paid is not donating. This is something about the fertility industry and the root of our origins that upsets many donor conceived people. The language and rhetoric sound nice and kind and lovely. But strip it down to the actual bare bones minimum function and purpose and things get more complicated.